Prince of Arnheim wrote:Actually....i'm 25 years old....and I found that women like a man who doesn't talk much..they don't like it when you get in their faces.....
no...it is better to simply ignore them.....why do you think they always go for the tough guys?? Because women need to be protected. They like the warriors types.....don't be all kind and friendly.....no give her a glare every now and then just to let her know who's domain she is in.....that will put her on the defensive.....THEN you lighten up by making a very manly joke....preferably one that makes someone else look bad and you good...or cool.......
This is about the worst advice I have ever seen on
any topic.
If you really think that is a good idea, I can understand why people do not like you. Some (but by far not all) women do like "macho" guys - but to be a "macho" kind of guy, you need selfconfidence. Making jokes on someone else´s expense is the perfect way to show the whole world that you have no selfconfidence whatsoever, and that you are probably right about not thinking highly of yourself, to boot.
No girl likes being treated like an object by a total stranger (there are some girls who like to be treated like an object, but only by people they trust).
Now, Lord Fear, the best advice given in this thread so far is to just be yourself and be relaxed. Okay, so this is maybe the first time you will try to chat up a girl/ask her out for a date. But it will most likely not be the last (unless you are exceptionally lucky and she not only says yes but also turns out to be the love of your life), and it is nothing special to the rest of the world, even though it is to you.
So just be yourself, be honest (if you catch yourself looking at her breasts, for example, just say what you think, ie, make a compliment about how well whatever top she wears looks on her or something, just don´t be too blunt), and don´t worry about what will happen, because whatever
will happen, you will most likely either laugh about it in a few years (or maybe even months) or have a fond memory of it because she was your first date.
Oh and PoA, stop using multiple dots instead of proper punctuation. Reading your posts is a pain, and further posts in that style will not be tolerated in my forum.
It´s nice to be important, but it´s more important to be nice.